Ladies: 5 s e x secrets every woman must know about love'making

1. He nurses the fear that he'll let you down. Men feel tremendous pressure to perform se'x'ually. While women aren't waiting for marriage to have s'e'x, and that means they are far more relaxed in the bedroom. Se'x'ually satisfied role models, like These liberated women to cause some trouble for their male partners. Suddenly, the pressure to perform is on, and he can't help but feel like he has to please you. Even though you may not be so bothered about his performance and you might forgive him for a few poor performances, he has a hard time forgiving himself. It's really tough on him.

Warning: If your man has a recurring problem of performance, he may start to blame you to protect his ego. Be prepared to handle this situation.

What you can do: Don't take it personally or, worse, insult him. And never laugh! Just pretend that it is no great deal for you.

2. Men need validation to get their groove on. S'e'x is a source of power from ages, and it gives proof that one is masculine. To a man, having s'e'x means that he can move a woman, that he's energetic, a provider and a lover. Basically, your guy wants to be a superhero, and he certainly wants you to see him in that light. When he satisfies you se'x'ually, he feels like superman. If you're enjoying yourself, let him know that. He'll love you for your compliments.

Warning: No encouragement means no fun. Whether you are enjoying yourself or not, just be encouraging.

What you can do: A good rule of thumb: Don't fake it but don't fight it. Just look happy and satisfied and that would make your man feel super.
3. Men don't like waiting too long: Women should never hold out to have s'e'x simply because of the so called rules of dating. He is more likely to commit if there is a s' e'xual component to the relationship , and it is important for him to know that you find him se'xually desirable.

Warning: If your guy is offended when you initiate s'e'x, get rid of him.

What you can do: We're all sensual beings; we might as well be who we are. So don't be afraid to make a move.

4. Men too are conscious about their bodies: Let's face it: Men may not worry about weight nearly as much as women do, but they do have their own image issues. Warning: Most men are quite concerned about their general physical condition, height and baldness. In other words, they are hoping for mood lighting in the be'dro'om just as much as women are. What you can do: Help your man by telling him that you find him attractive and showing him affection.
5. Most men will not forgive a cheating girlfriend: Men who have been betrayed, especially in the be'dro'om, are far less likely to forgive their partners than women in the same situation.

Warning: Men want loyalty at all cost.

What you can do: Show your loyalty not only by remaining faithful when in a committed relationship, but also by supporting your man in front of colleagues and friends and defending him when necessary. This allegiance will make your man more secure and will give him the motivation to let loose in the bedroom with you. Men want commitment just as much as women do; they just want it packaged differently.